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Boyfriend help, what shall I do?

8 replies

Rog123 · 20/08/2019 17:02

I found out my boyfriend was speaking to another girl on social media that he met on holiday and it’s made me feel insecure and paranoid. He said it’s nothing and he didn’t think about it being wrong but they were very large messages getting to know each other, some were flirty. He let me read them then unfollowed her.
I can’t stop thinking about it/her and don’t know what to do.
Need some reassurance/advice plz!!

OP posts:
TrollTheRespawnJeremy · 20/08/2019 18:34

Well, he'd be getting binned by me.

TheBatsHaveLeftTheBellTower · 20/08/2019 18:36

I'd dump. Life's too short.

bunslinger · 20/08/2019 18:37

Need some reassurance/advice plz!!

Advice - dump him.
Reassurance - you'll easily find someone who's less of a twat.

BumblebeeBum · 20/08/2019 18:38

^ what they said.

SpanishTiles · 20/08/2019 18:39

Cut your losses and dump. The right man will love and respect you completely. There is no love and respect with that behaviour.

AFistfulofDolores1 · 20/08/2019 19:23

Value yourself more than you do.

Reassurance is for those who don't want to face the truth.

Alloftit · 20/08/2019 20:00

Oh get him gone. What a sleaze. He’ll do it again, and worse.

crappyday2018 · 20/08/2019 22:46

He got caught out so thought it made things look better by letting you read the messages. Imagine if you hadn't seen them? He would have met her and cheated on you. Dump him and find someone decent.

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