4 weeks no contact with verbally & emotionally abusive ex

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Looking for some advice really Made it to just over a month of no contact with ex partner I was the dumper because I couldn’t take it anymore was more off than on but I have been in a deep depression ever since we have been broke up nearer 2 months but in no contact for a month as we tried to talk things over and nothing was changed from his side he blames me for his behaviour and turned his family against me and uses the words he didn’t have a temper till he met me ect he’s a Taurus aswell stubborn and short fused I hate them now

All I can say is what others have been saying to me

"Time is a healer"
I'm absolutely heartbroken & feel incredibly low after coming from a relationship that was wrong on so many levels. I miss him, but I don't miss the abusive, selfish behaviour he so often displayed. It's hard and I don't feel as though I'll ever get over him, I'm hurting. But like myself all you can do is hope time helps you to deal with this break up. We have done the right thing and one day we will look back and realise this, even if it doesn't feel like it now

I’m months down the line and it is definitely easier, but I miss him very very much, I think about him all the time and it destroys me to think that I’ll never see him again! But I’m able to accept it all now, I can objectively analyse the situation and I am proud of myself for being strong enough to walk away from my addiction to him.

I’m working on finding my happiness again though, it’s not bouncing back the way it usually does.

Sending lots of positivity your way OP

Thanks for your reply’s it’s really hard isn’t it , I think it just hurts he hasn’t even tried to reach out and right his wrongs dunno though if that’s just my ego talking though I know I will realise I made the right choice in time my friends all recommend dating sites just don’t know if am ready for that yet

I feel the exact same I miss him but not all negative behaviour has he ever contacted you ?

It is better to go no contact. Let yourself heal. And you will move on

I'm two years down the line and it still hurts because we have children and will always have contact sadly. I wish I never had to lay eyes on him again.

Just go Day by day and when you are ready to date again go for it.

Write a journal of how your feeling or when you want to reach out to him. In time you will feel less raw