Name changed for this. Just wanted to write it down really!
DH and I have been together 8 years and are going through a rough patch at the moment.
He cheated when we were engaged and we have since married and I thought moved past it.
But now 4 years down the line it’s like we have lost a closeness or spark. I feel like we put so much energy into repairing our lives and keeping together that we forgot to work on us and our intimacy.
I honestly don’t know how we get that back. We have built a great life together and both want very much to keep it, but something isn’t right between us. Our sex life isn’t great, and we both find it easier to bury our heads in the sand rather than risk losing each other.
We had some honest conversations about it, but I don’t know what to do. How to even start addressing this. Can anyone relate?