I really don't know what to do about this. It's getting DH down more than me, obviously as he could happily DTD any night of the week. Me, there's a window of opportunity - about 5 days around ovulation -when I feel in the mood but the rest of the month I'm just honesty not interested.
We'll sometimes start but then it's obvious I'm just not in the mood, so it's not particularly good for me and really disappointing for him. Last proper session was 6 weeks ago on our anniversary (as DH has just reminded me) and really, really good, but since then it's been half-hearted or non-existent. If it was up to me I'm happy with quality over quantity - but this is obviously not the case for DH and he feels neglected and, understandably, rejected.
I'm upset too. I know sex is really important for intimacy and when it's good, it's good - but I just can't make myself do it when I'm not feeling it, and I'm not feeling it a lot of the time.
If anyone's got words of wisdom I'll be glad to hear them...