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Mixed messages advice

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gnostick22a · 18/08/2019 08:16

I am struggling to grasp my situation with any clarity.

We are supposed to be on a sort of break while she is figuring out what she wants.

I got a msg late Friday night - as she was wondering how I was - but didn’t actually ask. She also stated she was going away for a few weeks with her kids in holiday in the UK.

I didn’t answer and then the next morning I got another message saying do i want a conversation and what weekends I have my kids as she is planning with her ex.

So I reply back and I think we are having a conversation- so I send one message to answer her question and another late Saturday- stating hope she has a good holiday.

So now I have no response. So maybe it too soon but I don’t understand what she is driving at and all what I feel are mixed messages.

Am I being too introspective?

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NameChangeNugget · 18/08/2019 09:46

I got a msg late Friday night - as she was wondering how I was - but didn’t actually ask Hmm

How do you know then?

Live your life, have a great Sunday an ignore her games. She sounds hard work

ChristmasFluff · 18/08/2019 12:53

My advice would be that when someone has to take a break to 'figure out what they want', then make their life easier by deciding you want someone who knows they want you too.

Do yourself a favour and end this.

gnostick22a · 18/08/2019 12:55

Err she mentioned in her msg - ‘she wondered how I was’

I really don’t get it - she incredibly intelligent with a lot of emotional intelligence.

Sigh

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gnostick22a · 18/08/2019 12:56

You are probably right Christmas Fluff, I guess I like her more than she likes me and it’s a bitter pill to swallow

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gnostick22a · 18/08/2019 16:47

Think it’s ended anyway - lol I didn’t expect to see her on POF

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