I am fed up being the one who is always making the effort/ hosting. My friends keep cancelling on us or not make much of an effort. I understand people 'move on' I am so hurt with the lack of effort my so called friends.
I am more disappointed that over 20yrs of friendships is being thrown away.
There is no specific event for the parting friendship. DH and I are sociable and often host/ or make bookings/ reach out by sending messages here and there to even just to say hi. We don't get any of this in return. I started a fitness journey and stay off social media. Just felt I have not heard from anyone lately, just checked I last had any messages others reaching out to me was my bday in January. All others are ones from me trying to get together and getting declines...
Has anyone been through this? I started new hobbies, joined new gym/ classes but can't shift the rejection.
Feeling sentimental but know I can't be a doormat x