Just reflecting over my past dating experiences and wanted to know what you would call this type of behaviour.
Some days would be over you like a rash then wouldn't hear from them for like days or weeks
Never define the relationship status despite dating for 3 months
Didn't like the fact i was independent and had my own interests
Told me to only ring them at certain times
Was upset once and they just sat there and had a smirk on their face. Didn't offer me a cuddle or anything. They were just stone cold.
Couldn't put themselves in other peoples shoes
Looked down on others
Highly judgemental of anyone who lead a different lifestyle to them
They couldn't bear to be wrong
Said i was highly strung (looking back i always felt anxious in their company) Everyone that knows me on a close basis tells me i am not
Anyway these were just some examples but my point is the experience with this man left me feeling i was not good enough, felt insecure and generally miserable.
I watch a lot of Kati Morton Youtube videos and it helped me realise i was dating a man who was emotionally unavailable. I just wondered if their was a proper term for this hot and cold behaviour?
Have healed from this relationship as was 3 years ago but working on how not to attract these types ever again.