My husband told me exactly 1 year ago he had a 1 night stand with a trainee work colleague 5 years ago. it started with kissing at work and ended with what he said was very poor sex (yes I know he would say that).
He told me as he suffered a mental breakdown as a result of his betrayal. He is so sorry and shocked at himself.
I too have tortured myself and him for the past year.
The time lapse is causing issues of then and now, his then is my now!
I know every detail and it was silly, immature and reckless.
I am stuck between my heart to leave and head to stay, my kids are grown up.
I'm in good shape and have now a husband who is not perfect , I always thought he was but is now a brilliant a husband.
its just still as painful and wanted to know if anyone is further down the line and can help to move on one way or the other...…