My fiancé had an “emotional affair” between November 2018 - January 2019. Although some people may consider it was just a friendship. I have decided to try and forgive and move on but what holds me back is the fear that one day he might do it again.
He kept this female single young colleague’s existence a total secret from me. At lunch times he was going for walks twice a week with her, which he would arrange via the staff intranet as they don’t sit near each other / not in the same office. They did not have each other’s phone numbers.
Today I have just been to where they used to walk and discovered it was round a park, lake and woodland trails. I just feel really upset as this would be isolated walks, no one around, and feels romantic. I know nothing physical happened but it just hurts.
He goes for walks with another colleague but only once every few weeks and they just go to Waitrose together.
I want to move on but should I discuss with him later about how I know where they would walk and how it upsets me that it seems romantic? He has always maintained it was “just a friendship” and since my discovery he has ceased contact with her. I haven’t discussed it with him for a few months now as trying to move on.