Dh is not so darling. We've had yet another row; this time he told me he considers me overweight (I've got a big tummy, left over from pgs but the rest of me is fine) so I told him I'd never have sex with him again. I'm fed up with him for many reasons. We've got 2 dc who for some reason adore him, although he's not very attentive. In fact, he's extremely selfish & getting older by the minute. Not a good combination for a husband/father. Arghhhh! I want out but can't afford it financially & most of all, don't wish the dc to go through what I went through, the hell of a divorce. Is an "open marriage" a possibility? I'm in my early 40s & don't want to lose what's left of my youth with this boring old fart!