I was so interested to read some past posts about men with narcacist qualaties but as they were some time ago I have started again.
I am in the early stages of separation, emotionally draining and my husband shows no emotion while I seem gripped by emotion.
I had a friend tell me lately that I was married to a 'true narcasist' I would love advice from other ladies on this post
One such example of this is that my husband was keen and head over heals to want to purchase a larger property which would put us hugely into debt. He wanted to sell and purchase immediately. I was negative about the idea and we have since been on a continuous sprial of discontent.
Now we have had further discontent he has said, 'you can leave, I'm not leaving this house'- having wanting to move it seems absurd that he is now digging his heals in to stay and insist I move. He has told me on frequent occasions that he 'hates the village' so why such a chance of opinion
He is the predominant bread winner, we have a young 6 year old and I have put a lot of finance into our family home. He can't tell me to leave.
It isn't the first time that he has been appauled by my reasonings of not following his decision, if he hasn't got the upper hand, he becomes angry, rude and distant. We rarely talk, he had said to me 'I'm not speaking to you unless we are in the company of a mediator' which I find absurd. He spends most of his time playing golf or out with mates. Our life rolls on living in separate rooms (over 2 months now) and he has very little to do with our young son (6) and myself. It's not a sane environment, thoughts? I think I'd love to have someone to give me love rather than derogatory comments- Thanks