Hello all
I'm fairly regular here but unfortunately have had to NC due to privacy issues. I wanted to say thank you. I have not posted for ages, but have been reading answers to similar situations.
I have been really listening to my DH, in one conversation today alone he changed what I had said twice and told me it was my fault for him verbally abusing me.
I'm one of those who finds it difficult to leave. I think a lightbulb went on today. I am trying to distance myself as has been suggested. Thank you for your honest help to others. Any other tips in increasing my distance and personal armour would be great. I'm not in a situation to separate now, but that will change. I know that things may get worse as I am about to start a new job. Yes, he will no doubt play up. Thank you.