Is there more to this?

[Binforky]

I have only had 2 relationships my whole life. I've never been on a date and my last relationship was very mentally and sexually abusive and I have now found out physically to my dc. Anyway I'm living happily free of all that liking being on my own with the dc.

So to my question a single dad from my childrens school who I help out with lifts text me to ask if I wanted to go out sometime. Saying we could go out with the kids for the day. I said that would be nice and arranged a time etc. I've thought nothing more of this than just people with kids meeting up to let the kids play. But others are saying that he was asking me out. Am I being naive?

It could be either; it sounds a bit like he wants to get to know you better without the pressure of a date.
Unless it makes you uncomfortable I would go and see how it goes. You may find something develops or it could be completely platonic and he just wants another parent to spend time with to do stuff with the kids.

Ignore comments from other people. If you get on, and the kids get on I would advise you go. Just be yourself and enjoy it.

Just go along and take it as the day goes.