Hi, this is my first post on here and I'm looking for some relationship advice. I've been with my husband for 20 years and we have 2 children aged 10 and 8. My husband has always been strong minded but was great fun when I met him, I am more quiet and thoughtful so I found this trait really attractive. We've had fun over the years but the last 5 plus years have been really difficult. He has become obsessed with work and money to the point where last year he invested in a large rental property requiring loads of work. I begged him not to do this as we didn't really have the money and he insisted it will be fine. Ever since we have paid for this. He's borrowed money from me to fund the project, worked 7 days a week around the clock leaving me doing everything at home. Taking care of the children, in every way, doing every bedtime, taking them to clubs etc etc. I also started doing more hours at work to make life easier financially which was on the understanding that he would help more at home - it's been quite the opposite. I'm at the end of my tether and feel quite used, I didn't want any of this. To make matters worse when we are together as a family he is constantly on his phone, watching programs he wants and generally being there in body but not soul. I know this is partly because he is shattered because of the hard work he has put into the property over the last 12 months but this is why I was against the idea. I'm totally fed up and feel that things would be easier on my own but it's such a hard decision to make and he's not the easiest to talk to. Any thoughts please.