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Relationship advice on possibly getting back with my ex partner

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Maisiejaesouthern · 11/08/2019 21:05

Hi, me and my ex partner split up in April of this year we have a 2 year old daughter together and we were together for 4 years. He cheated on me with another girl and I found out he had been messaging other people behind my back. Then a few weeks after we split I found out that he had got the girl pregnant (or so he thought). He also didn’t really see our daughter that often when we split up and didn’t help financially because he had been fired from his job. But recently he found out that he isn’t actually the baby’s father and the girl was further along in her pregnancy than she though so it couldn’t of been his. He had recently came back on the scene apologising for what he’s done and wanting to try give things another go, I still love him but I don’t know what to do as my family & friends really hate him for what he has done to me and our daughter.

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WitsEnding · 11/08/2019 21:18

Listen to your family and friends. He doesn't care about you, he's just using you as a fallback.

Blanca87 · 11/08/2019 21:22

Fuck that. You would be a fool to even consider!

Starlight456 · 11/08/2019 21:25

Move along . He doesn’t care about you or dd. You both deserve more . Even in benefits should be paying £7 a week.

If it was his baby he wouldn’t be back would he ?

FineWordsForAPorcupine · 11/08/2019 21:36

He cheats, ignores his daughter when it suits him and doesn't feel like he needs to pay money to make sure his child can, yknow, eat and have shoes.

I definitely see why you'd want to give this prince another chance.

OnlyYellowRoses · 11/08/2019 21:37

No. In the nicest possible way have more respect for yourself. Move on, life the best life you can for you and your daughter.

peachgreen · 11/08/2019 21:37

He cheated on you. He will cheat on you again.

LellyMcKelly · 11/08/2019 22:09

God no. Life’s too short. Do you want to be stuck with a cheater for the rest of it?

AlongTheWay · 11/08/2019 23:03

He cheated on me with another girl and I found out he had been messaging other people behind my back.

This is what your life will be like on repeat if you oi go back to someone who has shown you what he's like. Why the need to go back to an ex? You split for good reason. You're worth more than to be treated like that.

PickAChew · 11/08/2019 23:05

He only wants to start again because he's not getting it elsewhere.

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