Two years ago my daughter met a man online. They met several times but to some extent there were issues even before she took the decision earlier this year to move overseas to be with him. They are now together but their life is not great. She's the only one working, they're permanently strapped for cash and she says he's really moody, often shouting at her and exhibiting controlling behaviour. Yet again I've had her on the phone today in tears after a shouting match. She says she feels trapped. She's asked him to leave but he won't (the house is in her name) and if she comes back home, it will cost her thousands in relocation expenses that she'll have to repay. I absolutely hate seeing her so unhappy and stressed and it's making me unwell too. I just don't know what to do. I've said I'd help her come back home if she wants that - we'd find the money somehow, I'm sure, but she doesn't seem to want it. I'm frantic with worry. What should I do?