Hi ladies, I’m back in the world of OLD again 9 months after my horrendous breakup. I honestly never ever thought I would get over my ex, my heart hurt for the longest time. But, I went to counselling, read every book under the sun and actually feel like a better version of myself than I was before I met him. Anyway, through my work I have discovered that I have an anxious attachment style when it comes to relationships (If you have not read the book Attached by Amir Levine then do it. It honestly has changed my whole perspective on myself and the way I behave and why) anyway, I’ve started to see a new guy. We’ve had 4 dates in 2 weeks (possibly another tomorrow) he’s a journalist, lives 15 mins away from me but commutes to London everyday. Super busy, really clever, bloody lovely and I think super keen! But, my brain has gone into super meltdown mode because he’s not a big texter (not a bad thing I know!) he’s gone back to his home town to visit his grandma this weekend and I’ve heard from him 6/7 times throughout the day. We’ve arranged to see each other tomorrow night before I go away for 3 days with the girls and we already have another date planned for next Saturday. I know I’m being crazy, as I type this I can see how stupid it sounds! But, my previous dalliances have left me more anxious then I would like to admit. I’m trying to own it and move forward, but please tell me their are others out there who feel like me?! Thanks all xx