Am at the end of my tether. Been with my partner for 10 years and can't cope with his drinking or apathy any longer.
When we met we both drank a lot. I had depression and used alcohol as a coping mechanism. I'm now sober after some major health problems.
We bought our first house last year and it needs a lot of work. I'm pretty handy, keen to get things done and enjoy fixing things up. My partner, on the other hand, has absolutely no interest and told me this week he doesn't want to do anything to the house.
Instead, he gets wasted every weekend and sits around gaming.
The house is a tip. If I start cleaning or trying to do any DIY he yells at me because it "stresses him out".
The other day he told me he wants to spend £250 on a new guitar. (He already has 4). But when I mentioned that I wanted to fix something small, that has been driving me crazy and will cost around £50, he said it was too expensive and I should just stop moaning about it.
I now resent him and having to live in this dump of a house that I can't do anything to.
Do I cut my losses and leave, hoping he'll buy me out?