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Lost my libido.. advice?

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perfectlyimperfect1 · 10/08/2019 10:54

Before having my DS who is 2 I had an average sex drive.. 1-2 times a week maybe.
Since having my son I literally have no sex drive at all. I would easily go without it for months. DH makes ‘jokes’ (eg digs) about it every single day which to be honest puts me off even more. I can be thinking maybe tonight then he’ll make one of his jokes and it just puts me off. We maybe do it once every 2 weeks if that.
I just don’t know what’s wrong with me. If I’ve lost interest altogether, or if it’s how I feel towards DH? When we do I just wish he would get on with it and not drag it out so long.. which sounds awful. I take antidepressants since having DS and the pill so unless that isn’t helping? It’s starting to become a bigger and bigger issue.
Has anyone else felt this way?

OP posts:
loveyoutothemoon · 10/08/2019 20:19

Probably a combination of the digs and medication, I bet though if you talked to him about the digs and he was to lay off, you'd feel more inclined to do it.

Theoldwillo · 11/08/2019 09:17

The digs do not help as you feel pressured into it then which will make you recoil further.
You need to communicate how you feel to your partner, my ex did this and would sulk if I said no, we split last year as I ultimately realised I just didn't fancy him anymore and was also massively put off by his sense of entitlement!

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