Just walked away from DP as I'm furious with him being a DD.
Long story short for this example, we have a friends birthday party to go to and we RSPV months ago saying we'd attend with his DC. Oldest DC now informs us he has been invited to a friends party same night. Can't do the two as the distance between is so far. DP said he will tell DC he can't go however when DC has asked over text (several times) DP simply changes the subject.
I know it's because he doesn't want to say No to DC. It's always the same. He is a typical guilt ridden DD who doesn't want to be parent the DC in any way that may upset them.
Generally the kids are great and there are no issues but the only issues arise when I'm the one having to organise things, pull the DC up on manners because DP doesn't.
Generally he is a great Dad and clearly loves the kids so much but I feel like a broken record keep on saying something. He only sees DC EOWE and a few times during the week for a few hours so I understand his time with DC is precious but he doesn't realise by not being firm at times, he's creating more issues.
Other than this Disney Dad issue, things are pretty great between us. I don't know whether I just need to 'suck it up' or whether sometimes they might change.