Me and my partner have not been getting on for about 4 years, mainly due to inability to communicate. He is v. angry and shouty, I fear and avoid conflict so withdraw and so the cycle continues
We have 2 boys, 8 and 11. The oldest one has inherited his Dad's temper and they clash a lot, often yelling at each other. The youngest is v. placid but gets upset at the arguments.
I have always said I would stay come what may to keep the family together. My partner has talked about leaving a few times. He has a well paid job, i am a part-time TA so earn a pittance so we would have to sell up and get 2 smaller properties. I hate the idea of them being shunted between 2 homes but am beginning to think the conflict is exacerbating my son's anger and yesterday in a fit of anger he asked if we could live away from Dad.
Do i take the leap? Is counselling worth a shot or has it gone too far?