Red flags with "separated"

[BeepBeepBop1]

Hi all
Some of you may remember that I found out my apparent doting boyfriend was actually married. I kicked him to the kerb and so did his soon to be ex-wife (we've actually become quite friendly so a positive). I know I ignored red flags and trusted him (silly silly silly me) but lesson learned. I wanted to know what other people have experienced as red flags, like a share your shit experience. Learning pointers for us all. My major one I shouldn't have ignored was the pile of excuses for not meeting family, friends or social media.
Just a bit of reflective learning to stop others being as silly as me.

My DD's dad said he wanted to date someone who let him have female friends.

He went away on 2 separate occassions with 2 different female friends during our relationship. Turns out he'd been shagging one of them before we got together, then the other "friend" tried to get with him when we'd just had our baby... I had PND and couldn't cope with it all and left when DD was 3 months old. Two months later, he's dating this "friend." C#nt.

When I told another ex that I was insecure about my weight, he told me to not tell people that as they might use it against me. He turned out to be the most verbally abusive bastard I've ever met! He used every insecurity I had to put me down. 👍

@RLEOM that's horrible! Don't worry he'll get what he's owed eventually. I'm sorry he put you though that what an arse