My cousin has had a really tough few years with her ex partner who was extremely controlling. With the help of her parents she has managed to get out of it with her 4 kids.
She met a guy and started a relationship in August and although I've never met him there is just something I really don't like him and I felt I'd seen him somewhere before.
In December one of my best friends messaged me to say a guy she had chatted to on tinder earlier in the year had contacted her to ask if she fancied the date they never got. She said no because she had met someone. He begged her and she told him to f off. 4 months into the relationship with my cousin he's asking other women out on dates!! It wasn't until the new year that it clicked the tinder guy and my cousins new bf were the same person. When my friend tried to check his profile on FB to see if it definitely was the same person we realised he had blocked her. Has he realised he's sailed a bit close to the edge? Not sure.
In March he proposed to my cousin and she said yes. I've still not met him but from what I've seen on FB and heard from her sister the relationship seems quite controlling. Every post they put on FB, she tags him into it and vice versa even if they're not together at that moment in time. Today she has put on FB that her son is in hospital for a procedure. Myself and many others have commented to day hope everything goes well. Everyone has had a 'thank you xxx' in reply. I had 'cheers'. This is not like my cousins kind of reply to me at all. I'm now starting to wonder if he realised that the women he asked out in Dec is the friend of his fiancées cousin and is possible stirring the sh1t. I was in an abusive relationship for years and from the outside I can see the danger signs that it's happening again to her. My instinct is usually spot on. I don't know whether to speak to her sister or keep my mouth shut. I would want to know if I were being taken the pi55 out of but I don't want to cause a rift within the family either 