At the start of the year I fell for someone at work. Yes, he’s stereotypically good looking but it was more the conversations we would have, how easy he was to talk to and how much of a laugh we would have. Nothing ever happened. There was never any texting/ communicating outside week and we never discussed feelings towards each other. I’m married with two children, he was (still is) in a long term relationship but there was definitely a spark there. I’m not being delusional. There was always banter, we would choose to have our lunch together when normally all the colleagues sit together, we would always find each other first thing in the morning and last thing at night and the whispers about us had already started between other people in the office. And he completely got into my head. He was ALL I could think about when not in work and I couldn’t wait for Monday to get back to work to see him. It made work exciting. Fortunately/ unfortunately he left work to move to a different location and I missed him terribly but obviously had no one to confide in. I would also dream about him every night- nothing sexually, just normal everyday stuff and it was so annoying but eventually that stopped. I was glad he left as my work was beginning to suffer as we kept distracting each other and I pride myself on my professionalism. I felt like a stupid teenager again. All was fine, and it’s been months now since I last saw him but recently I’ve started thinking about him again and the stupid dreams have started. I just want him out my head! I feel so stupid posting on here but I can’t discuss this with anyone and I feel so sorry for DH as I know I’ve been a bit distant with this. Can anyone offer any advise? Or has anyone been in the same situation? I’m driving myself mad!