Hi all
I have a stupid, pathetic situation on my hands. DH neice is a trouble maker. Wen i got married she mistakenly thought she was going to be central to mine n DH marriage. She is spoilt by her maternal grandparents. Her opinion matters and they allow her to be centre stage. Along came me and i treated her well but dh and i quietly got on with our lives. So at family events she became reserved with me. Fine with Dh. Infact extra friendly with him but cold shoulder to me. She then started to ignore me. Would respond to hellos just point blank ignore etc but she didnt do this in front of dh Eventually i told dh and we agreed i will should not make an effort with her. Anyway few months later, she is now buttering up to me. What approach shall i take? When we tried to discuss her conduct with my sil, sil did not appreciate us “picking” at her daughter and then she told her mum who justified it all by saying she is a child. Since then the relationship across the family has soured. But now the neice wants to play happy families n i just cba.