Am I the one being a unreasonable here?

[Spanglyprincess1]

I have pnd and had my first cbt session yesterday it was emotionally draining but helpful. Dp asked about it and gave me a cuddle.
Today his 3 dsc arrived 8 am and I'm. Wfh. He's off work with the children Inc our bbay.
He didn't get up till 8.05 despite fact kids arriving at 8 and baby was up from 7 and I was at work.
I made baby breakfast and washed up from. Yesterday and tidied.
Dsc arrived.
I made lunch think boring chicken nuggets and chips so shove in oven on my lunch break. Siad I was at work once in but I'd sort it once cooked. He served it to just the 3 dsc. Nothing for me or bbay. I asked him when I came downstairs and I'd wazzapp Ed him that it was for everyone, he said he didn't k ow it was for everyone as I didn't say, and he didn't see message, itold him off. Didn't offer to make me anything and there virtually no food in house.
He's gone food shopping with all the kids now. Left all the washing up and all dirty plates on table and house a state.
Just messaged to say he and all the kids are eating out tonight and hell be back later. I finish work at 3pm. No. Invite to join them and no food I house for me.
I'm really really upset.
Am I being unreasonable??

Don't do the washing up and stop doing 'wife'work whilst you are working. He needs to get up and sort the kids out if you are working. Then go out and treat yourself to something nice at 3pm. . He probably thought he was doing you a favour taking all the kids out and giving you space. The chicken nuggets thing sounds like it was a genuine mistake.

Thanks I'm pretty low at the moment so might be blowing things out of proportion. Just if I'd ever done that I'd offer to get him something etc.
I do try and get him up but it takes forever sometimes.
He was probably trying to be nice, I will be charitable.

Maybe he thought the chicken nuggets were just for the kids. i would think that unless told otherwise. you don't have to do the dishes. if he left them it might be because he was rushing and might do them when he gets back. leave them and then see. He should have invited you to eat out unless you have been telling him that you are tired/fed up and he might be thinking you need a break from 3pm. Have you money to get a take away or is there a shop really close to eat? if so he might have thought you would prefer to do that. I'd have a chat with him later to iron it out.

But only 3 or the 4? Our baby is 1 and will eat them.
Yeah I. Will going to have a bath and see if a friends free as I'm annoyed.

I'd say after you shouted he is probably staying out the house to give you a break and let you work in peace? Must be a difficult time for you and bath and friends will be nice for you