So I went on my laptop today and last night my partner asked if he could use it which I obviously had no problem with. When I logged on he had left his fb up and messages popped up from women. Now I know I shouldn't have but I clicked on them. Now I wish I hadnt. My partner has been basically talking to women about work but calling them 'gorgeous' 'baby' and just being really flirtatious. Now I know being a flirtatious person to most isnt a big deal to many people and it isnt to me either, but the way he spoke to these women complimenting them and making them seem special has got to me. I'm so disappointed and the thing that is now making me question everything is the fact he told me he only ever calls me baby.. which obviously isnt the case. I know it could be worse but I feel hurt and pretty sick. It's also making me question if i trust him anymore. I dont know wether to just try get through it mention it to him and hope we get past it or is this just the beginning and will it potentially turn into him having an affair? Honestly maybe I'm overreacting i just dont know.