So posting for a friend.
She has been seeing someone for a few months but he never shows his feelings.
If his mates call and shes there he says hes going out with them and prioritises arrangements with them or with his family over spending time with her.
Today he went to a sporting event and she spent the day with me. They dont live together. Not one single text all day and she kept checking her phone and text him a few times. By 10.30pm she was convinced he had had an accident.At 11pm she got a text saying Home. Night.x Shes upset.
On Saturday he visited relatives and with a similar thing happening. A few times shes been with him and hes been tired and glued to a film but if a mate calls to meet hes up and getting ready.
In my opinion she needs to let him go but she makes excuses for him all the time. They are over 45 and no kids involved.