DP Google History Escort Service

[BrutalHonesty93]

Hi all,
Sorry in advance for the bad language.

Am fully aware that some won't like this and would normally be in total agreement but tonight I don't care.
I am 9 months pregnant for the first time, with DP 3 years.. and tonight I looked through his google history. Shameful I know. I let my insecurities get the better of me. Had my suspicions about early Dec last year when he went down the country for work. Google history showed 6 searches for an escort site searching escorts near him and then two profiles he looked at. Have just confronted him, swears he never cheated on me but is acting very nonchalant. 'Yeah I thought about doing it, I was horny, yeah and what?' I am heavily pregnant and very fucking angry right now. Also found a shit load of searches for she male porn. For a whole period of time when he was telling me he had lost his sex drive, there are searches upon searches for shemale porn videos on Porn Hub. I don't mind the porn part(use it plenty myself) but need I be worried about the she male stuff? Says he'd never like to try anal but yet has watched copious amounts of it on pornhub. I'm fuming, I'm crying, all I want is a fucking cigarette. I can get past the she male stuff but ffs the one thing I hate is LYING.. I dunno whether it's because I'm angry that I don't believe him about the escort or because my gut is saying he's lying. What the hell do I do?

So sorry this has happened to you. Similar happened to me last year with finding escort searches on the computer. He may have wiped it by now but if you go to the website he used, the log in details may be saved on the computer because of auto fill. Or if you know his email password could do a request new password on the website to get access. If you log in to the website that would allow you to see any messages and bookings. That's how I found out the extent of it and that there had been numerous bookings etc. Just doing the searches is bad enough though and suggests real intent to cheat.

That's terrible OP! The whole thing is very insensitive. I hope he hasn't used the service as he could be putting you at risk.
He needs to have more respect, especially as you're pregnant.

Oh my goodness, this is a whole can of worms! Firstly, if he is open and shameless about looking for escorts then in all likelihood he has been using prostitutes for a long time- in fact I would not be surprised if he has used Male escorts.

You deserve so much better, it’s really important that you contact your midwife and confide in her that your partner has very likely been using prostitutes, possibly Male prostitutes. So that you can get a full screening just in case there is anything that may pose a danger to your baby.

In your shoes I would end the relationship, who owns your home? Contact your family and friends first, you are going to need as much support as possible! Be completely honest about his behaviour, you are not to blame here- he is completely responsible for his appalling behaviour!