Taken forever but finally ended it. Desperately sad.

[Notgettinganyyounger23]

Hi all posted on here a while back about my relationship. I had finished it but them we got back together ..It's taken a long while but I have finally ended it and come to terms with why I've had no choice. I still feel really sad though. Is this normal?

YES. You probably made the right decision if you thought that long. The sadness does not mean you made a mistake. It means you are emotionally intact!!! It is sad. Take one day at a time and try to do happy stuff. Be careful about maintaining too much contact as it is actually unkind to them as it delays them moving on.xxxxxx

Would you mind if I asked why you had no choice?

Because the relationship wasn't making me happy, even though I loved some things about him it didnt make up for the issues. We had hardly any sex life and hardly any intimacy. He hardly contributed to the house financially or physically. It was like living with a child, he wasn't responsible at all.

Best of luck to you . Hearts heal x

Going through the exact same thing. It gets easier. Just give yourself time.

Totally normal. Rejoice in that fact as you are healing. Be proud, be strong and you will not regret it.