Messaging.

[Secondsight]

If you were with your partner and they kept getting messages via messenger later at night would you ask who it was? I don't normally as sometimes it group chats etc. I would never pry or snoop is that being too nosey asking. I'm slightly insecure I think.

I would ask, yes.

Why do you believe you are slightly insecure OP ? are things happening that is making you feel slightly insecure ? or is it just the messaging ? these things usually have a reason for appearing you see.

Yeah I would ask.

I think I'll write a better answer tomorrow. My DP was in a v controlling relationship with his ex she checked his e mails wouldn't allow him on Facebook and I'm nothing like that but I sometimes feel abit jealous and insecure. I just felt guilty asking who was messenging so late, I do trust him and I think I'm just over sensitive about getting like the ex. I know him from the past so I know he wasn't doing anything behind her back.

I think it depends how long you’ve been together- if it’s early days and you don’t know his messaging ‘pattern’ then I wouldn’t- however if you’ve been together years & these messages are out of the ordinary then I would casually ask.