I’m shaking as I write this. DP left me for OW and eventually came back. It took a lot for me to let him back into our lives (we have DC), we’ve been to counselling and we agreed that we would tell the truth no matter what, this including him telling me that the OW had contacted him. We blocked her on everything but the bitch is resilient. It’s been a while since she made contact and I thought she might have just moved on but then today happened.
DP left for a run and left his phone, he took his work phone (think this was probably a mistake). Anyway, a message popped up on his phone and I couldn’t help but look. I could see who it was from but none of the details. So she’s made contact fucking AGAIN. He may be complicit in all of this, hence the shaking.
I did a little social media stalk and found she has a new boyfriend and they are on hols together with her kids yet she’s texting MY boyfriend. This has made me rage even more! Why can’t she just leave us the fuck alone? Why does she engage? Why does she feel the need to play these games? Just why?
So now onto what I do next. I want to fly at my DP when he comes through the door but that’s probably counterproductive. Do I wait and hope he will tell me she’s back on the scene? How long do I wait? I took a photo of his phone so he can’t deny this. If he doesn’t tell me this evening I’m done, for good.