Hi all, I will give you all a brief run down of the situation. 6 months after separating from my husband I met someone new. We started out as friends but got on so well that we quickly became a couple. Right from the start he told me he'd had issues with cocaine addiction but that it was all in the past. He had lost access to his baby daughter because of it and he was really sorting his life out to get her back. He told me all sorts of stories about his ex, how she was violent towards him and that this had driven him to the drug use. After a few months of being together and proving he was clean he was allowed to start having supervised access to his daughter again. A month or so later his whole personality changed and I suspected he was using again. Doing a bit of digging I discovered empty coke wraps in his pockets on several occasions but he always managed to talk his way out of it by saying they had been a friends or been in his pocket for months. The lies were constant and I knew he was always getting high any chance he could get. Anyway the final straw came when his daughter was allowed to stay over one weekend and he had to nip away late at night for ciggies and would take his baby a drive to get her to sleep. The next day I checked his phone and found he had been out picking up cocaine and getting high whilst his daughter was in his care. I was absolutely disgusted and threw him out and told his ex what he had done. She told me many stories and I discovered he had told lots of lies about their reltionship and the violence, it was him used to beat her up! She has now stopped all his access to the baby and he hasnt seen her for 2 months. He started going to drug counsilling but was found with more cocaine on him on several occasions since. I've had messages from him saying he has nothing to live for and he is going to kill himself. I feel as though I'm responsible for ruining his life. Am I a terrible person?