I left my emotionally abusive ex 4 years ago and have genuinely never looked back. He, at the time, told me repeatedly how devastated he was, he cried, begged me to stay etc. He seemed broken. By that point I didn’t care. I was so so happy to be leaving. I blocked him everywhere and moved on with my life.
Today I’ve learned he met a new partner the same month that I left and he has since married her! I’m just shocked at how quickly he moved on given how upset he seemed at the time.
I also feel desperately sorry for her, having to deal with him and his foul abusive parents. He displayed some deeply strange and worrying behaviour when he was with me. I think she has children.
Don’t know what I’m asking really. I’m just shocked and surprised. Is it usual to move on so soon? I have but by myself, I’m very happily single. It took me a long time to recover from that relationship. It has left deep scars