I’ve been in a relationship for 2 years. We don’t live together, I have DS aged 15. He sees his children every other weekend and works night shifts, so we don’t have a lot of time together. He’s a really sexy, fun man and we have great sex. He’s a very emotional man, I respect this but sometimes find it difficult ( hard faced cow I know). My issue is that he always wants/ expects sex every time we see each other. I’m normally up for this but earlier this week due to the intense heat and tiredness I wasn’t feeling sexy and for the first time ever explained that I wasn’t feeling sexy and could we just go out instead. OMG, he wasn’t happy. Suggested I was being unfaithful and then started crying, saying how lonely he was. I felt it should’ve been ok to say I wasn’t in the mood, no big deal, but it got blown out of proportion and I ended up going home. I’m feeling really unsettled and also, dare I say it, turned off by this. Is it a sign of things to come?