Stale sex life already?

[Alli80]

My husband and I only got married in September last year, and already we only have sex once a month at the most. We are both rubbish at instigating it, and I also never really want sex much I think because I am on Citalopram for anxiety and also the mini pill. I want to want sex more, I am only 35 and was single for most of my 20's. I thought when I found a partner I would want sex all the time, maybe because I did when I was single as I was never on any of this medication.
I am now starting to over think things, but I know in my head its not a marriage problem as I don't look at other men and want them either, I love my husband and fancy him, so I want a good sex life with him. Any advice is welcome please.

Talk to him!

How long have you been together & has your sex life always been like this.....or was it more frequent when you first got together.

Just over 3 years. Yeah well we lived in different towns so to begin with we only seen each other at weekends so had a good sex life then.
I think citalopram kills your sex drive and the pill on top of that won't help. I don't really want to come off both of them tho, I've tried to come off both separately and it's not made much difference.