Ah god I can’t believe it’s come to this but I have know one to talk too, I have been with my girlfriend for 15 years have a 4 year old who is the best thing in my life, but the relationship with my girlfriend is in a bad place, she says it’s not me (that old chestnut) but she has zero libido we not had sex in 15 months, for the year before that probably every couple of months I put it down to hormones after the baby. But it’s driving us apart No more than a odd peck on the lips she doesn’t come near me no cuddles no affection what so ever I feel like a tenant, she doesn’t let me near her if I try to hug her put my arm round her in bed she fobs me off, she says she still Wants to be with me but but there’s no affection at all. I someuyhink she’s just hoping I’ve had enough and I end it so she’s not to blame that the little un doesn’t get to see mommy and daddy every day