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Ex is a Prick

20 replies

Scragg74 · 21/07/2019 23:26

Why is my ex a prick Angry

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SelenaMeyer2018 · 21/07/2019 23:43

Mine is too. I’m sorry feel free to elaborate - I won’t hijack your thread.

I hope you are okay.

thinkimdonenow · 21/07/2019 23:44

That's why he's your ex. They're all pricks

Scragg74 · 22/07/2019 05:41

He has a new gf fair enough really don’t care but it’s like his daughter is his last thought now he’s getting his end away, I’ve had nothing but shit because he’s changed his work pattern and I wouldn’t agree with his new rota, he used to have her fri/sat wasn’t even 24hrs and now he wants her sat/sun just a little over 24hrs i felt I was losing my day with her which was a Sunday I work all week get weekends off so that was my day and that selfish twat just expected me to give in he claims he was working 6 days and that’s the only time he could have her. I saw through his bullshit in the end I was persistent even when he threatened taking me court trying to say I was denying him access. He was doing nothing but moaning about picking her up putting too much mileage on his car his job was that he was travelling 300 miles a week not for your daughter dick head. In the end fount out he was only working part time so after all the abuse and threats of court action he was off every Monday and he couldn’t even be prepared to admit it, too busy building a new relationship with other woman who has 4 kids. Just so angry why do exes put there lifestyles before their kids needs.

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slipperywhensparticus · 22/07/2019 05:57

My ex is a prick too I'm expected to just fall for his bullshit time after time he has my son wrapped around his little finger

Buggeritimgettingup · 22/07/2019 06:19

Mines a prick too, he owes 3 grand in back pay csm and has just given up his job and hidden his money (not claiming anything) he's also a convicted peodophile his new wife doesn't mind!

feistymumma · 22/07/2019 06:26

Mine is a shit too, recently texted our son telling him to tell me I was irrelevant. This is because I asked him why he was no longer coming to pick them up on Saturdays and would only pop round to see him in his car when he was in the area, as if they are an afterthought. Cue an abusive message with swear words sent to our son to forward to me. God I loathe him ( sorry for hijacking)

Scragg74 · 22/07/2019 06:27

I hope Karma is there for us all. We shouldn’t have to put up with the bullshit that spills from their disgusting mouths.

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welliesarefuntowear · 22/07/2019 06:30

Mines a prick and he's downstairs still living in the house. I discovered he'd been seeing another woman since September, been on holiday with her, lied ar every opportunity to see her and opened a bank account with her. When I finally chucked him out he moved in with her (unknown to me, I thought he was at his mums having "space"). And now he wants me back! Well fuck that!

welliesarefuntowear · 22/07/2019 06:33

Sorry for the hijack, it's just such a common theme of utter fucking bullshit and lack of basic decency and a lack of respect from this collection of pricks.

Scragg74 · 22/07/2019 06:36

I know that I’m not alone in this. I didn’t realise there was that many pricks out there.

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Scorpiovenus · 22/07/2019 09:04

He has a new gf fair enough really don’t care but it’s like his daughter is his last thought now he’s getting his end away

Its the honey moon phgase stop letting your emotions control you. He is happy and you must remember what that feels like you are being unreasonable.

Don't be that crazy catty ex cliche

Scragg74 · 22/07/2019 10:34

Point taken!!

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Howyiz · 22/07/2019 10:42

WTF @Scorpiovenus? She can be as 'catty' as she likes when her ex is trying to change visitation to suit himself and his new relationship without any consideration for the OP or their child!

raspberryk · 22/07/2019 10:49

Mines a total knob too!
Tried to change visitation to suit, I just said the children will be available from these times to these times. If you're not here within half an hour of the agreed time we are leaving for a fun day out and you will have to wait for the next scheduled weekend (about every other week). And he can't bring them back til 6pm on the agreed day as I won't be there.
It works.

Scarg74 · 22/07/2019 13:49

Well said howyiz!!

Pugworld · 22/07/2019 14:10

My prick abruptly dumped me and the DC for another woman and thought we were going to remain friends. Tried to work it so that he could turn up as and when his busy social schedule allowed to see the kids. I soon put him straight.

feistymumma · 22/07/2019 14:22

I need to set my shitty ex straight on the visitation. This Saturday he said he would turn up in the morning - no specific time. The fuckwit never replies to my messages etc, needless to say he turned up at 130pm and by this time children were restless having got ready at 9am just in case. I keep quiet as I don't want to make things messy for the children and want them to see him but I have to sort this out don't I? I was planning to meet some friends and ended up getting there late. He is so awful

Scarg74 · 22/07/2019 17:08

Don’t give up set ground rules, if your not there by this time as raspberryk said it’s his tough luck!

Madmilkmaid · 22/07/2019 17:09

I'm with ya! New gf on the scene 10 weeks and it's been lots of "oh could we swap this night round as I want to go out with gf". Me like a mug trying to be accomadating agree then find out that when he has had dc he has on several occasions left them with family members because "gf wanted me to go with her to one of her kids things"!

I've had enough now, im refusing to be flexable. It's bad enough he already introduced dc to gf and kids after less than 3 weeks but now the limited time he has dc is being dumped on because gf would appear to be more important.
Oh and doesn't pay any maintenance as he has no money. No u won't have mate when u spend it all on trips away and nights out every week!
Like other pp said, there's a reason these pricks are exs.
Sorry I've been holding that rant in for ages. Glad I'm not alone!

Scarg74 · 22/07/2019 22:42

I think it’s good to have a rant let it out 😤

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