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terrified abusive lie to get kids. please help

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anon2334 · 21/07/2019 19:14

I am going through the courts but waiting legal aid. So far he has abused me, emotionally with threats of violence annihilating me with fists out but never hitting me. Verbal abuse of kids and smacks them for having a tntrum I am not allowed to interfere, according to him or he told me to leave if I dont like his ways. they are young. My eldest does not have him on birth certificate. He used to lock gates in evening, Pencil through the door. Keeps baseball in room. paranoid much .

he has done so much including snatching my son off me only 3 by running up behind me whilst he was walking with his sister in front of me. Police cant do anything he is pr altough didnt like they way he done it. I havent seen my son in 7 weeks nearly 8. he wanted to facetime to speak to kids but found out he wants to find out where I am to take my other son or record us? He uses underhand tactics. So worried. I cant say more about his abuse but he hasnt hit me but come close. My daughter has improved no end in behaviour and is doing better. she is 6. I am terrified he will take my 2 youngest as he has pr and is there dad. He lives 100 miles away. He also left me homeless by kicking me out in front my daughter. Then begging me to come back to more verbal abuse. We were not married. He owns the house the family home. He has more money albeit finding out through deception. Anywa ideas how to get through this. any experiences in family court? Do they separate siblings? would they make me move back near him with my other 2 as my 2 are settled although we are staying with family. I am literally scared.

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DishingOutDone · 21/07/2019 22:26

Op I don't have any great advice but I know others on here have been in your situation; are you getting support from Women's Aid? I found the National Domestic Abuse helpline to be excellent to talk things like this through:
www.nationaldomesticviolencehelpline.org.uk

I hope someone with more experience comes along soon.

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