I met a guy 5.5 months ago on POF. I wasn't looking for a relationship, I joined on a whim to boost my ego after a very traumatic split. I just really wanted someone to scratch my itch on weekends when my kids are at their Dad's.
This guy was really kind, cooked beautiful meals, the sex was amazing. We also got on and I felt very relaxed in his company. We have a had a mini break, we like to go for coffee together and it felt really easy to be with him.
He's only over here to work, he's Italian so will eventually return home. His children are over there and all his family. He has met my kids as he helped me move house a couple of months ago. They like him.
A couple of months in I said I would hide my POF profile as I was getting a lot of messages. He said he would do the same, there is a tiny possibility he didn't understand me as English is his second language.
Last night I think he was out, he often goes out with his workmates on a Friday. We do normally WhatsApp each other a lot and say Good Morning and Goodnight to each other. I hadn't heard from him all evening which was slightly unusual.
I have begun to have a few doubts and I went on POF to find his profile is still visible and he had been active on Thurs. I feel like a massive twat. I know we're not in a serious relationship but I thought we were exclusive. He's messaged this morning and asked what time should he come over. I'm annoyed and a bit upset but know I should end this. WWYD? Do it by phone or in person? Does he deserve an opportunity to explain?