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Have you ever been in a relationship that just didn't feel right??

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tanyalouise1989 · 20/07/2019 10:26

I've been with my partner for 2 years, I got with him almost straight after breaking up with my ex whom I loved a lot.
He does everything for me, treats me better than anybody ever has. I just feel like we don't click if you know what I mean? We don't really share any interests etc.
We have a son together, it wasn't planned, but I thought maybe things would change, that I'd fall madly in love with him, I've tried so hard. Having our son together only makes things way come complicated in terms of breaking up.
Please no hatful comments, I'm just looking for advice, similar experiences, it's something that really gets me down a lot I feel so guilty for feeling this way 😩

OP posts:
BandsAndBeer · 20/07/2019 10:50

Yes. I've ended it.

Samsamjamjam · 21/07/2019 20:46

What attracted you in first place and what went wrong? He’s treated you better than anyone else and you want to break up?? How old is your child with him?

tanyalouise1989 · 21/07/2019 21:05

Yea I get so frustrated and angry at myself for not feeling the way I should. My sons 2 months old

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AFistfulofDolores1 · 21/07/2019 21:34

Why do you feel you "should" feel something?

LizzieSiddal · 21/07/2019 21:38

Yes, I was with someone for 5 years, I just knew things weren’t right. I used to look at other couples, who I knew were in love and feel envy. So I finished it.

How long have you felt like you do? Do you think if you hadn’t got pregnant you would have finished things?

raspberryk · 21/07/2019 21:39

I think you shouldn't make any huge decisions at 2m pp. Xx

ysmaem · 21/07/2019 21:52

Yeah been there. The relationship that didn't feel right started the same way as yours, right after a breakup. Sounds mean to say it but he was a rebound. I was with him for 3 years and he treated me like royalty but I just didn't feel like it was meant to be. I let it go for longer that I should've because I didn't want to be hurt him but looking back it was cruel to string him along because I was to much of a coward to just say I wanted to end things. I think you need to tell him how you feel.

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