I’ve just been out with one of my old friends, his boyfriend and my boyfriend. My boyfriend hasn’t really got on well with my friends bf the first time he met him..he’s quite serious and seems quite self important. However, it meant a lot to me for my bf to try with them and make the second time more successful. This time it was much easier, the conversation was flowing and after the meal they’d calmed down with each other and saw eye to eye. They asked if we wanted to go for drinks after, which I would have been down for. My boyfriend proceeded to say we were saving for a holiday, which is true, however I was so happy they were getting on that I wanted the night to keep going. I said I’d pay for his drink, thinking it would be nice. So, this is when it gets a bit awkward. He wrote me a message on his phone saying he needed the loo, to which I pointed to where it was. He shook his head, but never said he felt ill or wanted to leave. If he had said he was feeling ill, I would have made an excuse and said we had to go. We get outside and they ask if we want to go for one. He immediately jumped in and said he needed at sh*t and don’t want to “destroy the bathroom”, immediately running off and barely giving me the chance to say bye. I was mortified, he had only met them once and they thought it was an excuse for him to leave as he kept saying we were skint. Turns out he did feel ill, but how was I to know this when he never actually told me? I just found it disrespectful and it came off as an excuse, as he never said anything before. Am I right to feel a bit annoyed about this or is he on the right for being honest?