What to think of this....

[Rockinmomma]

Hi, long time Mner here looking for others perspective.
Have been separated from ExH nearly 4 years, we’re very civil and co-parent our dc.
He has a dp, I’m single and recently we’ve done a couple of “family” things together. Now, for me these outings are always about the kids, I want them to have nice memories of their parents getting along and believe me, it’s bloody hard for me to do! But I’ve shoved any resentment I have away....for them.
But a few days ago the Ex was msging me (kid stuff) and out of nowhere states he isn’t happy and has really enjoyed the family stuff.
Apparently there are issues at home.... I told him I’m not the person to talk to about it.
I’m not sure what to think, there’s been no more mention since.
I feel sad though, for dc, they really enjoy doing the odd outing with mummy and daddy

He's chancing his arm. Put him in his place!

Yeah....kinda hoped that was just my thought...I was thinking too deep into it.
Men are twazzocks, he should know there is zero chance of reconciliation

Yeah you've moved on and that ship has sailed, but well done for co-parenting so well, it's bloody well not easy but your children will reap the reward, don't be tempted to blur any lines.

Oh I’m faaaaaaaaar from tempted! But I know what he’s like.
I won’t raise the subject and if he does I’ll just have to put him straight and hope we can move past it.