Me and my ex have split just over a year ago, after 15 years and have 2 DC. He has a new girlfriend that he has been with for about 6/7 months. He takes the children out once a week for tea with her and her 2 children and he tries to have them one night per week, if he isn't working.
He is having the children on Friday and told me they are all staying at his girlfriend's house, I've said ok, as he did mention that it might happen a couple of months ago. They are also going abroad in october (may be relevant).
I'm ok with them staying over at her house, as he is a good dad and I trust him; however, am I being too laid back, should I tell him it could be too soon, or should I keep out of it? It's more about the children and that fact that 6/7 months isn't very long.
I would be lying if I said I'm over it, I'm getting there but still have bad days, but I know that I need to move on and perhaps me agreeing to these things may help me get there.
The only reason I'm writing this thread, is due to mentioning it to a friend who thought it was too soon, so thought I'd see if anyone has any similar stories or advice.