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Positive endings after bad relationship

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Cookiedough123 · 17/07/2019 21:24

Im 26 and i live with my boyfriend in a house we bought with our dog. We have been together around 4 years now. He has OCD and anxiety and I am really struggling living here. 3 months into our relationship we started arguing mainly because of his stresses stemmed from his anxiety and OCD. I dont want to go into the ins and outs but can you help me by telling me a story of how you have come out of a negative relationship and how things got better and changed for you.

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MejustMejust · 18/07/2019 00:46

Hello :)
Obviously different story to yours but i came out of a 4 year relationship in January.
I was the one doing the dumping and it was the hardest thing i've done. He didnt want the breakup but he had becone selfish and our relationship became all about him and his wants. In the end, i realised we both wabted different things.

I cried for weeks, almost took him back uncountable times.

Then i went no contact.
Now almost 6ish months later, i've met a friend of a friend on a night out. We've been going on dates and (so far) he makes me so happy and i cant stop thinking about him.

My ex is not over the breakup yet but i've accepted not to feel guilty. He will move on one day and i hope he finds happiness.

You do what's best for you. I was unhappy for months before the breakup.
You'll know when (if) the time is right.
One day you will just wake up and know.

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