Single forever....dated alot....
I have learnt so so much (with the help of Amy Young and Matthew Hussy) about self care, setting boundaries and just believing that people come and go from our lives for a reason and teach us something new. The people that leave are just not our people, nobody to blame, just simple really.
Now - I find myself chatting and basically finding something that I feel uncomfortable with with most guys. I'm wondering if I'm over thinking. I think I'm doing ok but I was wondering on your thoughts to a few scenarios ....
You are chatting and something comes up where you tell them something you have achieved or about to recently - they're not interested in asking what and start talking about themselves. Is this lack of interest from the get go?
They ask to meet within sending about 5 messages back and forth without even asking anything about you. Time is precious, I don't have time to arrange dates without knowing there is potential. I know it's difficult via messages but at least have a conversation.
Arrange to meet and you don't hear from them in days - they ask if you are still up for meeting later. Maybe it's ok for them not to show too much interest?
I question if I am just over the whole dating thing as everyone feels exhausting.