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What would you do?

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mummywithtwobabes · 17/07/2019 16:28

Not going to go into too much detail in case anyone I know happens to come across it!

But, I know my BIL is cheating on his pregnant partner. What would you do? Tell her? They already have one child together.

I feel so much guilt!! Advice please?!

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Anothernick · 17/07/2019 17:03

Depends a bit on the detail of what you know, how certain you are and whether it's happened just once or is more serious but I think I'd start by letting him know you know. Jumping in with both feet and telling your SIL could be risky unless you are 100% certain of what you are saying and unless you caught him in the act you cannot be sure.

ContactLight · 17/07/2019 17:07

Is this your dp's brother? If so, then perhaps he needs to be the one to say something.

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mummywithtwobabes · 17/07/2019 17:12

I'm 99% if not 100% sure!

It's tricky cus I don't want to be the one that causes 'family drama'

My DP again doesn't want to cause drama. But I feel so much guilt!

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mummywithtwobabes · 17/07/2019 17:13

Not sure how often it happens but the first time it did was over s year ago!

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