This is gonna be long.
I started a new job a while back., and after a month or so I suddenly realised I have a mega crush on a guy who works in the building but not for my company,
However, we work together a lot. I see him all day, and often end up together at the local cafe.
He's so pretty. He's also lovely and friendly.
He's a little bit flirty. But I don't know if he's like that with everyone or just me.
I work in an office of about 17 women, none of whom have more then a polite 'hello how are you' with him.
Where as, he stands and chats to me, he always asks about my weekend, how are my kids, etc. Winks at me, waves when he drives past, makes bad jokes. He mirrors ALOT. He never stops smiling.
We email a lot and he's quite open, jokey, but it's all responsive, he doesn't often initiate.
I think I've made my feelings quite well known, but then he could think that's how I am with all people, which I'm not.
I don't k ow whether he a) likes me back, b) likes the attention or c) is oblivious.
And it's starting to become distracting.
I want to get more, but I'm nervous that if he isn't into me then I'll fuck up a good working relationship and make us both awkward.
I'm open to opinions. But mostly I need to talk about it.
He's so lovely. He is so helpful, my colleagues joke about how helpful he is to me, if they need something doing they send me over cos they all say 'your his special friend'
Work crushes are the best, and the worst 