So I’m new here at my wits end and I’m so looking for answers. I have been with partner for 18 years since I was 16. We have two boys 17 and 15. Over the years we have some tough situations but always pulled through ok. I like to think I’m easy going he had always and I mean always has done what he has wanted financially business wise 7 have failed but always admired the persistence. Anyway. He has also been depressed so have I we have struggled but always overcome. Last week on the Tuesday I sensed something was wrong this is very occasional too so I carried on as normal and he seemed fine on the Wednesday spoke fine on the phone I picked him up from train station seemed fine in the car. Then bam nothing I have no idea why but he has not spoken since. I have tried to ask if everything ok are you ok and at 11 o’clock at night just said he doesn’t feel ok but in his language!! So I was wide awake since then. He has not spoken since so I flipped out yesterday and said it was unnecessary to treat me like that I’ve been on sofa since as I just feel like my anxiety through the roof when he like this. He just said he didn’t know why. This is his answer to all the times he like this. We’ve previously been to counselling but that didn’t last long as he basically didn’t like what I was saying. I feel very lonely very angry. I completely understand depression is tough but I can’t be supportive if he doesn’t speak back. I feel so sorry for my sons they don’t know what to do. He has never really been active in their lives always been me with boxing football appointments etc. He has never helped or wanted too. I’m at my wits end feel so low. I’m not in work at moment and I find this really hard. I like to think I’m a happy person and I try to be as supportive as i can but I think this is the end of our relationship now. I basically said yesterday I can’t do this much longer and he said to pack his things if I’m done. What do I do.