So since I split from my ex wife nearly two years ago, I've been back in the dating scene. I've had two 3 month and one 6 month relationship. They ended for various reasons but one thing they all said is that I am too nice!!
I'm a pretty laid back guy who believes in treating a woman right, whether that's flowers, leaving love notes or taking her out but apparently that's not the way to be. I'm not really interested in drama and just want an easy life but all three said the same thing.
Now don't get me wrong I'll never let anyone speak to me bad or treat me bad and I'll not wait on someone hand and foot but I encourage my partners in their careers, don't care when they go out with friends and don't demand from them.
So what the hell is being too nice. I told all if them when they said this I'm not a 'bad boy' type and all of them said they didn't want a bad boy and one said she just wanted me to 'challenge' her more
Seriously what the hell does that mean... I assumed women wanted decent guys who looked after them... maybe I should be more of an a*hole next time!